How does one succeed in life?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Procrastinates a lot.

Ask yourself:

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Family scapegoats with years of healing: what events or thoughts precipitated your full acceptance of your family's narcissistic dynamic? Can you share your inner thoughts as you reached it? How do we know when we have reached full acceptance?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

What advice would you give to a father of a teenage daughter on how to protect her from boys, dating, and social media? How should fathers discuss these topics with their daughters?

Does not procrastinate.

That's it for today.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How should one handle a situation where they suspect their partner of cheating, but their partner denies it and claims it is all in their head?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Why do men think I’m easy just by looking at me?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

What I need from you?

How can I be okay with being ugly? What is the bright side?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Why did Trump’s team spin the lie that Melania Trump spoke several languages? Do they not realize she can hardly speak English after living in the US for over 40 years?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Did Obito ever fully redeem himself in everyone's eyes?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

This is a real question: Why do a lot of men/boys hate (yes, hate) women that voice their criteria in choosing a partner? Even when the criteria is sane and responsible. Besides it being, sadly, an effective mating strategy, why does it exist?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).